Wednesday, January 30, 2013

FOR MY FRIENDS

While a few of my friends have managed to retain the friends they had since their childhood, many have lost touch with friends they, at one time of the their lives, could not live without. 
Like many of my friends, sometimes I too feel that I am not lucky in matters of friendship, but at other moments, again like my friends, when I reminisce about the good times I have had in life, I cannot but thank God that he gave me the chance to have the friendships I have had. 

At the age of 50, friendship stories strike you as a strong link to your past. This is an age when you have time to dwell on what has gone by, what was put in the back burner as you got busy with other priorities in life and then as you take the time travel back into your past, you suddenly find yourself standing in the middle of a green field looking at the stupid smile of your old  friend and the same sense of die hard camaraderie engulfs you. 

At 50, you have gone through various phases in your life. You have seen days when the world seems a dirty place and friendship is the longest four letter word. You have seen days when you are down in the dumps, looking for some comfort from somewhere and someone just turns their back on you. But then you have also had days when your friend has bear hugged you and said without saying that he would stand by you come what may. 

Friends are like the family heirloom that keeps appreciating in value and emotional appeal with the passage of time. 

Thank God for giving me the friends I have.
To celebrate the spirit of friendship I am going to post songs on friendship
The top five in my list are:

Diye Jalte Hain:  



Yeh Dosti Hum Nahi Chodenge:


O Yara Dildara mera Dil Karta



Yaari Hai Iman meri:



Yaar Anmulle

FRIENDSHIP

 

Sunday, September 26, 2010

Airtel Delhi Half Marathon V

Hello,

This is a further update on my practice for the Half Marathon.
Last Sunday (19th Sept) I ran 5K at a reasonable pace. I ran a distance > 10K on Tuesday and Thursday and was hoping to run a 12K yesterday. I could not do it as two rather important things came up.
My wife left for Jaipur to be with my ailing mother. Mummy had a Cardiac Bypass Surgery on the 6th of August and was expected to be up and around by this time but due to an infection of the surgery cut the progress has been much slower and we are fearful of the continuous illness.
The Champions League finals between Chennai and Warriors was telecast live from 6:30 PM. I felt like watching the match.
I therefore have to make the 12K run today.
On an average I am able to run the distance of 10K within 1:20 mins. This gives me hope that I shall be able to meet my target of 3 hrs for the run in November.
The fact that now I am able to run 10K comfortably also boosts my confidence.

By the way our cricket team won the practice game against NBK on Saturday. We were playing without a couple of our good players and were still able to chase down 178 runs needed for victory in 20 overs. This victory is a good confidence booster for our team just before the league starts. We are playing the same team coming Saturday and we expect them to come hard at us. I am sure that if we play to our potential we can continue this winning streak.

Best regards,
Manoj

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Airtel Delhi Half Marathon IV

Hello,

Yesterday was another wonderful evening.
After skipping the scheduled run of 5K on Saturday I ran it on Sunday but once again without timing the run. The reason for skipping the run on Saturday was that I had gone for Cricket practice in the morning and felt that I would not be able to do justice to the run that evening.
You learn by making choices and I learnt that running immediately after having a mug of coffee is not a great idea. I sweat a lot and on Sunday, when I began running, I was sweating profusely even before I had run half a KM. The regular sweating usually starts after I have run a KM and it does not tire me in any way but the sweating I encountered because of the coffee made me feel lethargic and I would have surely failed to complete any course longer than the 5K.
The planned run for Tuesday was 7K and I was wondering if the tiredness that hit me on Sunday was a one-off thing or was it something that would put a brake to my preparation. 
Such thoughts I believe are not unique. The apprehension that I will not be able to make it made me think of giving up. 
However, the run yesterday was heartening. I started with a plan to go 5K and then plan on the remaining 2K. As a 5K run now seems easy I was hoping that I would have enough steam left to go through the next 2K.
Before starting on the run yesterday I had a couple of glasses of water and a 'Kaju Barfi'. I started at a slightly slower pace and had finished 3K before I actually started to feel the run. The 5K mark was passed easily and I reached 7K only with a slight pain in my knees. I have now got rid of the knee strap and the crepe bandage on the shin and ankles. 
Although I had done my scheduled run I somehow felt I should take advantage of the fact that I was not tired and run further. The spur of the moment thought was to better the 10K run of the previous Saturday or at least equal it and therefore I kept on going.
I met Noel who plays cricket at Sharq United on Fridays. Earlier Victor of Sharq United has also seen me run. I am not sure if they are surprised or aghast about my plans. After all most of them are 10 years my junior and the HM is a punishing distance. I also met Anku, Vinod's son who was walking with his father after having cycled on the previous two days.
These diversions are good as they take your mind away from the running. Other diversions are looking for familiar faces and trying to figure out their walking/running plans for the day. Looking at people and calculating how slow or fast I am in comparison is also a good diversion.
Anyway before I realized I was already at 9.5K and still feeling good.
It seems I made a small mistake here and tried to pick up speed for the remaining 1.5K. I was able to do it but the higher speed affected the kees and the runners knee was back. It was however much lighter this time and after having done the cooling off walk of two additional rounds I went home took a quick sower, dressed up and was at Salmiya market to order for our clothes for the cricket matches.
Things are getting exciting here as well as the season draws closer. We have a good team this year and God willing we should beat a few of the fancied teams. This Saturday we have planned to have a practice match with NBK.
If we do well we will celebrate.

Best regards,
Manoj

Thursday, September 16, 2010

THE AIRTEL DELHI HALF MARATHON III

Hello,

Yesterday I started for my run at 7 PM. The Sun was down and there was a pleasant breeze blowing. It was perfect weather for the run as even the humidity which had been a big bother in the past seems to have come down.
I took a quick bite (Lebanese sweets prepared at home by my office colleague) and had a glass of water before I started from home. The walk to the park is about half a KM and provides me an opportunity to test my aches and pains. I felt good as the calf pain that had been developing over the day was not bothersome any more. The crepe bandage taping over the calf seemed to have helped.
The plan was to run 6K and after the disappointment of the run on Monday I was apprehensive.
Once I started my run and completed half of the 1K circle of the park I started getting confident that I was not going to see another failure.
I completed the 6K without mishap or tiredness and as a celebration walked two smaller rounds of the park on the paved track.
The shin pain was more or less absent during the run and I think running on the dirt track instead of the paved one has helped. I now have pain in the calves.
The pain has travelled from the knees to the shin and to the calf and I hope it is on it's way out. I now have two days of rest or cross training before the 5K race on Saturday.
We, ie my son and I, plan to go for a swim today. Tomorrow I will play cricket in the morning.
Earlier I had planned to do the 5K on Saturday morning but the Bank Cricket league is starting on 9th October and we have a practice planned for Saturda morning. This means that I have to do the run in the evening.
I am planning on doing the 5K run in 35 mins. 7 mins to a KM over 5K should be good for achieving my target of doing the HM in less than 3 hours.

Best regards,
Manoj

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

The Airtel Delhi Half Marathon II

Hello,

A few days back, on Saturday, I ran my first 10K.
It was very satisfying as I have continued to train through the problems of 'Runners Knee' and 'Shin Splints'.  The 'Runners Knee' troubled me a lot during the first week but I have not been bothered again by it since then. However, the 'Shin Splints' seem to be a different problem altogether. It started in the second week of the training and turned severe in the third week. The third run of that week was a 6K run and I had to stop after 3.5K as going any further was difficult.
I took help of Dr. Scholl's soles that provide arch support and the pain became bearable. Now into my 6th week of training I do not get the unbearable pain I experienced in the beginning but my shin still hurts in the beginning and the end of the run.
I have noticed that I get a feel of extra energy at the 3K mark and it seems to last for a few KMs after that. Like in the 10K run on Saturday the run from 4K to 9K was pretty easy.
Till now I have been focussing mainly on completing the planned run and have still not timed my runs accurately. It does seem that I am doing 8 minutes to a KM.
At this rate I need to add another 30 seconds per KM for the HM and that would give me a timing of 3 hours and 4 minutes.
This is slightly over my target of 3 hours and I will try to bring down my timing over the current week.
Disappointing news is that yesterday I had a setback and failed to run the 6k I had planned. I got so badly drenched in sweat by 4K that it was impossible to continue further. I completed the 6K by walking through the last 2K but it was not the same. I walk pretty slow and I was slower after the exhaustion. 
I went through a few blogs of first time HM runners and was surprised to note that they completed the run in the 2 hours and 30 minutes range. 
I hope that I am able to run within 3 hours.

Best regards,
Manoj

Friday, August 20, 2010

THE AIRTEL DELHI HALF MARATHON

Hello,

15 days ago I started preparing for the New Delhi Half Marathon.
I scrolled the net to get some idea on how to prepare and came across a wonderful training chart for novices at http://www.halhigdon.com/halfmarathon/novice.htm.

I have since followed it religiously and done 19 kms for the past two weeks with a six km run on Saturdays ending the weeks.

After the first week I developed some pain around my knees. Earlier I had developed similar pain when walking downhill from Vaishno Devi and had concluded that it was because of my excessive walking. The pain, while doing the Vaishno Devi trip, generally started after I had completed the uphill climb of 13 Kms and was on my way down. As I never had this pain while walking or playing cricket I associated the pain with something to do with the pressure I put on my knees when coming down.

When the pain in the knees threatened to disrupt my plans in the first week itself I decided to seek help. As always I trusted the net and came up with detailed description on symptoms, causes and came up with this on http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/knee-pain/DS00555/DSECTION=symptoms

Chondromalacia of the patella, or patellofemoral pain.
This is a general term that refers to pain arising between your patella and the underlying thighbone (femur). It's common in young adults, especially those who have a slight misalignment of the kneecap; in athletes; and in older adults, who usually develop the condition as a result of arthritis of the kneecap. Chondromalacia of the patella causes:

Pain and tenderness in the front of your knee that's worse when you sit for long periods, when you get up from a chair, and when you climb or descend stairs.
A grating or grinding sensation may be present when you extend your knee.
When to see a doctor
If you have new knee pain that isn't severe or disabling, a good rule of thumb is to try treating it yourself first. This includes resting, icing and elevating the affected knee, and sometimes using nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory drugs to reduce pain and inflammation. If you don't notice any improvement in three to seven days, see your doctor or a specialist in sports medicine or orthopedics.
Some types of knee pain require more immediate medical care. Call your doctor if you:
Can't bear weight on your knee
Have marked knee swelling
See an obvious deformity in your leg or knee
Have worrisome pain
Have a fever, in addition to redness, pain and swelling in your knee, which may indicate an infection

As i had none of the above serious symptoms I started treaing myself.
I started rehabilitation exercises. These specific exercises help in strengthening the muscles that support your knees and control limb alignment, such as your quadriceps, hamstrings and the muscles around your hips (especially the hip abductors). The details I once again got at the halhigdon site on the half marathon and I was happy to know that it is not serious. http://www.halhigdon.com/15Ktraining/Stretch.htm gives details of the exercises that stengthen your muscles.
After doing the stretches for a couple of days I found that I no longer have the pain around the knees. As recommended I also purchased knee caps to support the knee but I think I need to purchase something better, this one is cheap and most prabably will start slipping off after using it a few times. I have still not started the icing part but will do that as well.

After I ran 5 kms on two consecutive days I have developed some pain on the sides of the calf muscle. I will once again take a look in the internet for a solution. Meanwhile I ran 6 Kms today with the slight ningling pain but was able to complete the run.

When I started I had thought I will not have the lung power to run the distances. Now, after two weeks my ideas are changing. I now believe I will not be breathless over even longer distances but need to take care of my legs.

Best regards,
Manoj

Thursday, August 19, 2010

Ramadaan for Non-Muslims in Kuwait

Hello,

Ramadaan is a month of fasting for Muslims all over the world. There are several other activities like prayers, charity etc associated with this month but what dominates conversation at offices is the fasting.

Fasting becomes important as it means giving up on a few of the favorite past times for Kuwaitis. They have to give up smoking, drinking Kahwa (coffee), Tea and eating the several in between snacks that keep them invigorated through normal days for their long sessions of gossip.

How tough is it for Non Muslims?

Not tough at all. The rule says that if you are caught breaking the fast in public you will be liable for a fine of KD 100/= or imprisonment till the end of Ramadaan or both. Every year we hear of some people getting caught but this breaking of the law I believe is more by mistake than by intent.

It is very easy to obey the rules. On general working days we start office at 7:30AM which means that we leave home at 6:45AM. Hardly a time to have breakfast. So mostly we end up taking a break for our breakfast at 9-9:30 AM. We then finish our office at 3:30 PM and are back home at 4 PM for our lunch.

During Ramadaan office starts at 9:30 AM and we start from home at 8:45 AM. As we are in the habit of getting up early and do not have to be awake at 3-3:30 AM like the Muslims do for their prayers, we end up having a leisurely breakfast.

At office between breakfast and end of office we have a few cups of coffee/tea. This is still available in the pantry even during Ramadaan.

Water drinkers have an issue but they keep the airconditioner at as low as possible and you can control your thirst quite easily. People who can not still have the choice of making it into the pantry.

Finally during Ramadaan we get off at 2:30 PM so we are back home for lunch at about 3:00PM that is a good time to have lunch.

As iftar is generally at 6:30 PM it is also OK for the tea break and thenafter we are free to visit restaurants and eat to our belly full anywhere.

So all in all I feel that we actually get into a good eating routine during Ramadaan. No wonder we put on weight during this one month.

Ramadaan is tough for the Muslims as they go without food and water for about 14 hours. They do not sleep properly and are irritable. It is difficult to concentrate on the work and as the refreshments are missing they do not want to talk as well. Finally it affects their hopes of being good and charitable and although they fast, do their prayers and read the koran the basic lesson of Islam for Ramadaan is not followed.

No one remains just and charitable. Your Kuwaiti boss has a tendency to fly off the hook at the slightest pretext and there is anxiety and tension in the office through out the month.

Finally people are happy when it is Eid.

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

VAISHNO DEVI TRIP

Hello Friends,

A trip to the temple of Vaishno Devi should logically find a mention in my blog "One God" but as I am now going to describe my journey to the Temple and refrain from discussing anything else I find it more suitable to enter it in "Jaipurblogger".

The trip this time was not planned. In fact right from 2000, when I first visited the Temple very rarely have we been able to plan it in much advance. It is therefore strange that never have we faced any difficulty in reaching there and coming back home without any hiccups.

When we came back from Diu and Ahmedabad, I still had a lot of things to attend to at home in Jaipur and going to Vaishno Devi was furthest from my thoughts. I had Radhika's birthday coming up on 28th and we had also been discussing a get together of friends from SBBJ. But somehow all of a sudden Radhika insisted that plan the trip in between these events.

So I booked my plane tickets from Delhi to Jammu and back and started off for taking the bus from Narayansingh circle. I got the only vacant seat in the Bus and was off within two hours of having planned the trip.

The bus trip was uneventful if you ignore the fact that the lady (A Govt School teacher from Jaipur) sitting next to me insisted on pouring her heart out and telling me about the problems she was facing with her son. This young man was in his final year of Engineering at IIT and although a brilliant student, he was now adamant that he did not want to study any further. He had already got a job of teaching students on how to get thru GMAT (which he had cleared with flying colors) and was insisting that the Engineering Degree would not help help him in any significant way.

I would have agreed with his logic if he had taken this decision on joining but I felt he was a fool to drop out when he was almost thru. I told the lady about my trip to Vaishno Devi and took 52 rupees from her to put in the donation box at the temple. I asked he to visit the temle if her wish got fulfilled and her son agreed to complete his course.

I stayed the night at Mayur Vihar and took the morning flight to Jammu. When I boarded the flight I realized that I had booked a Executive class ticket on the KF flight. It was real comfortable journey. Jammu to Katra was covered by Taxi.

I had planned to stay in the Shrine Board hotel in Katra but the Taxi Driver, who obviously had some commission to make made me stay at a better place. I rested for an hour and then took off for the temple.

For people who have not visited the temple I will make the details as explanatory as possible.
You first have to que to get the Yatra Ticket at a place near Katra Bus Stand. Luckily I did not have to do this as the Hotel package was inclusive of the Yatra ticket supplied in the room. There is another que when you get to the foot of the climb. The frisking by the police takes place over here and sometimes (as it was with me this time) you do get a big crowd at this place.

I started climbing at 6 PM and when I did start I felt so comfortable that I decided that I will do the 11 KM uphill stretch in one go. Even after so many trips I once again forgot that the first couple of KMs is the toughest. I was fresh and full of excitement and therefore pressed hard over this stretch. By the time I finished this I was sweating profusely. I admit that the weather was humid but I was sweating much more than any of the other walkers. Anyway so after I had done the first stretch I took off my shirt so that I would at least have something fresh to wear when I entered the temple. My vest was wet and I thought then that with the difficult start covered and going up into the breeze I would have a dry vest by the time I completed the climb.

The journey is tough and people try to make it easy on themselves by singing songs praising the Devi. The facilities along the way are excellent with a cafe and restaurant located at every interval of two to three KMs. There are benches placed all along the route and in general the climbers encourage each other.

As decided by me I did not use the facilities and the bench and did a very fast non stop climb, completing the distance of 11 KM mostly uphill in two hours flat.

The vest was now so wet that the sweat had dripped into my underpants. When I completed the climb many people actually thought that I was roaming around after having taken a bath with my vest on. This gave me the idea of taking a bath at the ghats.

Most times when we have been to the temple we have booked a room at the top and have visited the temple after having a bath in the attached bathroom (reasonable facilities). So I reached the Men's ghat hoping that it would be a covered area. The ghat turned out to be an open space with taps. I took the bath with my underwear on and then discarded the vest and the underwear, wore my trouser and shirt and made for the last que for the temple.

Unfortunately it was arti time and I had to wait for a long time before I got my chance to get into the temple.

We generally get back to Katra after the visit to the Devi temple but I do not know what came over and I decided that I will climb further to the Bhairon temple (a good 2 km steep climb). On reaching there I rested for a while, had some desi ghee ka halwa and then started my downhill journey at midnight.

For most of us this would seem the easy part but I was really tired by then and my knees really hurt when i stupidly used the step (359 of them plus another couple in the early 100s). I reached the bottom of the hill (13 KMs now) at 3.30 AM.The use of the steps made me sweat once again and I actually did most of the downhill journey bare bodied. It was quite a ridiculous sight, a person sweating while going downhill but I was beyond caring.

Reached the hotel and found it extremely difficult climbing the four floors to the room (lift was not working).

Next morning I was back in Jammu and then took the flight to Delhi. A bus ride to Jaipur then ended my journey to Vaishno Devi.

The journey has always given me a lot of satisfaction and this time it was different as I actually did a non stop climb in my personal best time of two hours.

The idea of taking the bath at the ghats, the visit to the Bhairon Temple was all spur of the moment decisions and the accomplishment gave satisfaction.

I am sure everyone who has made the climb will have their own stories to tell.
Best regards
Manoj

Tuesday, August 03, 2010

My Vacation In India

Hello,

This year I finally took the longest vacation since 2000. When in State Bank of Bikaner and Jaipur, I was used to a one month vacation. I could take it without feeling of any guilt and as a right. In Axis Bank, taking a vacation for four weeks was unthinkable. An organisation where small absences from office is frowned upon a request for vacation was made trepidations and the Boss had to be molly coddled before you actually sent your application. When I landed in Kuwait small vacations seemed to suit me as I could make more than one trip to India. But this year I heard my kids complaining that they hardly felt my presence during a vacation as I would generally end up being busy in a lot of work and forget to relax.
The one month vacation was good.
After relaxing for ten days in Jaipur where I played a cricket match for Mentor Finance against SJ Public School and ate a lot of Jaipur delicacies, we spent four days in Ahmedabad.
The time I spent there was excellent. I played Table Tennis with Sanju, the brother of my brother in law and lost all but one game. It was however surprising that spectators found my attacking game more entertaining than his ultra defensive and calculative game. My nephew's Janoi was celebrated with pomp and ceremony and I MCed the reception. Once again with a little bit of immodesty I have to add that I did reasonably well.
After Ahmedabad we, my family and my youngest sister, her husband and daughter, made a trip to Somnath and Diu.
The Somnath Temple is a new Temple built over the ruins of an old temple complex famous for the series of attacks and loot by Allauddin Khilji.
Diu is a wonderful tourist destination untouched by the mad stampede of tourism. We stayed at Radhika Resort, a very reasonably priced, well located and equipped resort. The beach is not much to rave about but the food was good, the time spent in the swimming pool in company of the family was relaxing.
The trip ended with a return to Jaipur and further exploration of the eating joints.

One of the most enjoyable aspect of this trip was the connections I made with old friends. I talked to several of my class mates, SBBJ mates and Axis Bank mates. The old memories came flooding back and gave plenty of joy.

I am not sure if I can take a similarly long vacation in the future but memories of this vacation stored through pictures now pasted in the computer and the revival of old connections will keep me fresh and expectant till my next vacation.

Best regards,
Manoj

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

GETTING NEW FRIENDS

Hello,

When you think of your dearest friends what are the names that jump out immediately?
  • Names of people you are now spending time with?
  • Name of your spouse?
  • Name of your present office colleagues?
In most cases these names hardly ever enter your mind.
The names that jump out immediately are mainly from your childhood or maybe from the first days at your work place.
Why is it so?

Well if I have to give a one line answer the reply would be
"Your best friend is a friend who is with you not because of what you are but who you are."
Extending it further we can say that
"Your best friend is a friend who is nothing else but himself."


In most of our adult life we become too biased in our views and rigid in our choices.
We focus on results and not on processes.
It is therefore no surprise that we focus on what rather than who and fail to find the true friend later in life.

Getting a new best friend is as tough as climbing the Everest without oxygen. Possible but difficult.
It is therefore very important that we retain our friendships.

Best regards,
Manoj

Thursday, April 01, 2010

Short Story - Recipe for a Disaster

Recipe for a disaster

Arpita had just lost the recipe competition. She sat in the rocking chair, going back and forth in the dark room. “How am I going to face people again”, she was thinking.

Her husband was the General Manager of Sam North Jute Mill and it was ‘Bada Khana’, a day when employees of all the five Jute mills of the ‘Duff group of companies’ got together to celebrate the year end.

It was a British legacy that had survived the exit of the Sahebs. ‘Bada Khana’ had changed from New Year eve to 26th January but the fanfare, pomp and ceremony had been retained. The celebrations included the very tough tennis finals for men and the equally exciting recipe competition for women. They had races like the wheel barrow race, the three legged race and a tug of war competition which was open to men, women and children but for the men, it was winning the tennis competition that mattered most and it had always been the recipe competition that the women focussed on.

Arpita was confident about her victory and the other competitors, who were aware of her exceptional culinary skills, were content that they competed to be second best. But she lost.

The fat and ugly Mrs. Pareek from Victoria was guffawing and she had heard loud clapping as she had made a hasty exit from the club house. She knew that her loss gave the competitors immense joy.

She gave them the reason to be happy. She was a snob. She was proud of her background, the wealth and fame of her family, the fact that she could address Satyajit Ray and Jyoti Basu as ‘Kaku’ and most importantly that she was the wife of the General Manager. She played the role of the ‘Memsahib’ to perfection. They had always been at the receiving end of her jibes and taunts on their lack of skills and polish.

Arpita was thinking about her husband.

Jiten was out with the men celebrating their victory in the Tennis court. He would not get to know about her loss for many days later. After all none of the men would have the courage to speak against the General Manager’s wife. But he would surely find out and then what?

Jiten was hard working, honest and proud of his achievements. Her loss and its manner would be a matter of shame for him.

The couple had moved here just about a year ago and this was their first ‘Bada Khana’. Arpita was an expert cook and loved to show off her skills with rare desserts recipes (collected during her husband’s assignments in tea gardens in Assam and Munnar). The women gave her the sobriquet ‘Queen of the Ladle’.

She had waited for the ‘Bada Khana’ to stamp her authority.

She knew that she would win. She had played her cards properly and trusted Mrs. Robbins.

The Robbins, the only Anglo Indian family in the mill, an old couple, stayed opposite the Yagniks. Mrs. Robbins had been a nurse with the British Army and had met her husband, an engineer in the army when they were both posted in Burma during the Second World War. They had shifted to Kolkata after the war and decided to stay back when the British left India.

Arpita met Mrs. Robbins the day she gave her first party in her new house.

‘My dear, are you having a party tonight’, Mrs. Robbins had asked Arpita.

Arpita was embarrassed. She was told that the Robbins never accepted invitations. She had invited everyone else. ‘Yes’, she said, ‘why don’t you come as well’.

‘No, my child’, said Mrs. Robbins, ‘we are too old for such outings.’

‘Do you need help?’ she asked.

Since then Mrs. Robbins had always helped her plan the desserts for her party menu.

***

Arpita presented the ‘Crepe Suzette’ - A common dessert that promised something special. Arpita felt confident. The feelings seemed justified when Sister Margaret, the nun from France, who was a special invitee, went gaga over the whiff of ‘Cordon Rouge’ flambéed over the crepe and declared ‘For me this is the winner’.

‘Why does your recipe have no mention of bananas’? Ms. Sinha asked Arpita. She was reading the recipe after she tasted the crepe. Ms. Susan Sinha was the head chef of the ‘Orient’ in Kolkata and the other special invitee for the event.

Arpita snickered. ‘Bananas in Crepe Suzette’! She exclaimed. This raised a giggle – the other ladies too had never heard of bananas in Crepe Suzette.

‘Yes, it is the bananas that make the crepe yielding and easy to fold. Is this your recipe?’ Ms. Sinha persisted.

Arpita was flustered now. ‘It’s from an old book’, she said.

‘I have the recipe in my diary’, Ms. Sinha went again. ‘I have bananas in the pancakes all the time’ and the only other person I know who would do it is Mrs. Robbins, my mother. Are you sure it is not her recipe?’

Her perfidy uncovered, Arpita ran out of the club.

She wondered if ten would be enough. The sleeping pills lay on the table next to her. She had already taken the ninth when the doorbell rang.

‘Hello dear, are you in?’ she heard Mrs. Robbins call out. ‘I am sorry about what happened. I told them that I had put in the bananas without your knowledge when I was helping you.’

Arpita tried to get up from her chair but it was too late. The pills took over. Mrs. Robbins did not have the strength to break open the heavy wooden door.

Monday, March 22, 2010

KIDNAPPED IN DARBHANGA

Hi There,
This is the frame of a Flash Fiction I hoped to expand on some day.
I have not come back to it for a year now and as some of my friends have shown interest in reading what I write I thought I might as well put it on my blog.
So here comes:
Happy reading and do let me have your comments.
Best regards,
Manoj
Kidnapped in Darbhanga

‘Can I have a glass of water’, Rahul was pleading.
Mr. Burly passed a small cup of water and Rahul finished it in one quick gulp. His captivity in the small room had entered the third day. His Rolex was still working.
‘Oh God, he exclaimed aloud, why am I here’ he asked?
No answer. He did not expect one.

This trip to Darbhanga was planned a month ago. After his final semester in the medical college he had gone home, met his parents, stayed with them for a couple of weeks and then boarded the train.

They had shared the same hostel room for the last three years and Rahul had readily accepted Amit’s invitation to visit his ancestral house. He had heard so much that he felt he had to see it. He was fascinated by the tales of movies at Jyoti Cinema, a place where songs were rerun at the point of a gun. He wanted to taste bhang, cannabis to the dilettante, sold openly at Tower Chowk and visit the ghettos, the place where they used AK- 47’s for target practise. This was a wonderland, one tourist destination Rahul did not want to miss.

‘Come on, get up’, the guard had poked his thighs with the long stick he was carrying.
‘Is there a misunderstanding, did he ask for use of the toilet’? He thought he was loosing his head when they stopped next to it.
‘I don’t need to go there’ he said.
‘Shut up’ Mr. Burly replied.
‘OK, so it is not the toilet, thank God’, he murmured, relaxing at the thought that he could still remember facts.
‘Is it done’? Mr. Burly asked Mr. Long Legs who had joined them.
‘Did they get in touch with Dad’? Rahul thought. ‘Let Dad be here’, he prayed. Dad would readily pay the ransom.

Rahul had been warned. Darbhanga was the kidnapping capital of Bihar. Businessmen, Doctors, girls, kids – anyone could become a victim. Amit had told him this. Rahul had not listened; this was part of the charm.
Mr. Long legs smiled. ‘Thank God’, thought Rahul, he had never seen them smile, ‘a good omen’ he hoped.
‘She agreed’ said Mr. Long Legs as he reached them.
Rahul was now hopeful. His eyes went moist as he thought of his mother. His father was abroad he remembered. He had departed on the same day he took the train to Darbhanga. He felt tears well up as he thought of seeing his mother. He knew he would cry the moment he saw her.

‘Come on’, the command was more forceful.
Rahul started walking again.
They reached the outer courtyard of the house where Mr. Burly pushed him ahead. ‘Take a bath, he said, time you are made ready', they laughed aloud.
‘But I don't need it now. I'll go home and take it there," said Rahul and they laughed again.
By now he was naked, Mr. Long Legs pulling off his clothes.
"We don't want you to smell like an animal".

‘So, the time has come’, he thought. He had tears in his eyes as Mr. Long Legs built up the soap lather. He was dried and made to wear the ‘dhoti’.
‘Why not my clothes’? He asked them.
‘What these? They smell like shit.' they laughed again. Mr. Burly and Long Legs were now in a very cheerful mood.

They were in the main inner courtyard now. An old man sat in the centre doing some kind of ritual. The place was gaudily decorated and women were singing and giggling. Clueless, Rahul looked around searching for his mother in this crowd of strangers.

‘Thank God you are here,’ he cried and rushed to hug him.
Amit, his friend, was there.
‘Welcome to the family’ said Amit. ‘My sister really likes you’.
Kidnapping grooms was an industry in Darbhanga.

Sunday, March 14, 2010

Just Like That

Koteshwar was in a very senior position in the government. He was always brilliant in his studies and his father was a senior Judge of the High Court when he retired. The Chief Minister readily agreed to his request to attend the ancient annual cultural function at his ancestral village which he cherished. The vist had to be under high security. Jharkhand is a strife-torn state and militants are everywhere.

The function went off very well. Koteshwar was very pleased and so were the simple villagers. They dance the traditional jig with abandon and spirit even though at the last moment, due to urgent work, the Chief Minister could not come even though he really wanted to. Instead he sent two of his cabinet ministers so that the functions went off well.

Once the ceremonial farewell was done, the two ministers invited Koteshwar to join them in one car for security reasons. Their convoy could become a prized target for any ambush.

"I'll take the front seat, thank you," said Koteshwar as he stepped in beside the driver. The car followed the escort police jeep followed by two more cars packed with alert heavily armed commandos. They took an undisclosed route even though it was a detour which would take longer time.

"Its really uncomfortable with your pistol in the hip belt when you have to seat in the car," said one of the ministers in the back seat, slanting awkardly to pull out the firearm from his behind. Actually it was somewhat congested with so many in one car and they had been travelling for an hour now.

"Oh, what a lovely thing," said the other minister, taking the pistol lovingly into his hands. He removed the magazine, waved the pistol appreciatingly and pulled the trigger just like that not knowing that a bullet was already cocked in to be fired.

The gunfire shot sent the convoy into immediate action well drilled and well experienced in this part of the country. Was there an ambush ? Most probably yes. The journalists in their cars not far behind made quick approach to get their stories.

But the police escort knows, whatever happens, if the road is clear, you never stop. So move, move, keep going. Soon it is realised, there is no more firing, it looks over. "What happened," the journalists ask. The convoy moves on.

The bullet has gone through his right arm and into Koteshwar's rib-cage. Inside the city, their car breaks off from the convoy and heads straight to the Medical College Hospital. VIP emergency. Koteshwar is operated upon. The bullet has fragmented into two pieces, both are eventually removed. Still in danger, but stable, Koteshwar will live.

Saturday, March 13, 2010

Suffocating Darkness

Why should anybody do it ? But she did it. Its in the local newspapers today.

Usha now of 50 years of age, lived with her husband Ramesh, alone in their sprawling house. Their son lived in the USA and daughter was married and settled in Mumbai. So Usha would everyday go to the Jain Mandir for so many years now.

It was hot in the afternoon. She took an autorickshaw. When she offered Rs.50 for the round trip, the driver thought he was having a lucky day.

Usha alighted at the Mandir entrance and asked the driver to wait. Soon the driver fell asleep in the back seat of the auto. He was snapped out of the reverie of the dancing Rs.50 note, with Ramesh shaking him by the shoulder. "Have seen a middle-aged woman come to the Mandir", Ramesh was asking him. It was late, dark and the street lights were on.

"Yes, of course, I brought her," said the driver, alarmed.

"Well, I've looked for her everywhere and she is nowhere to be seen", said Ramesh. "I've even asked the caretaker's family and they have no clue." Except, yes except, thought Ramesh, for the pair of slippers like Usha's by the 13-inch open and abandoned borewell in the Mandir courtyard. "Oh my God!"

The administration took some time to swing into action. But in a couple of hours the police procured and lowered a camera with light down the borewell. There she was. Quick, lower the oxygen supply tube. She was motionless. Bringing her up was only technical frivolity.

Thursday, March 11, 2010

CARLOS SLIM HELU - WHO IS HE?

Carlos Slim Helu is presently the richest man in the world.
His worth has been quantified at US$ 53.5 billion which takes him above Bill Gates at US$ 53 Billion.
So is he an American?
No. Carlos Slim is not an American.
So does he belong to one of the developed countries like UK, Germany, France, Japan?
No, none of these.
The country he belongs to has a per capita income of $14,500 a year, and nearly 17% of the population lives in poverty. To put his achievement in the right perspective it will not be out of place to add that his wealth is the equivalent of roughly 2% of his country's annual economic output.
Yes we are talking Mexico.
But more important than that is the fact that he is an immigrant. How's that for enterprise?
Great is it not?
So from where does he actually come?
LEBANON - Surprise, Surprise.
In 1902, Julián Slim Haddad, father of Carlos Slim Helú, arrived in Mexico from Lebanon, all alone at 14 years of age, speaking no Spanish. Carlos Slim's mother, Doña Linda Helú was also Lebanese. These immigrants who arrived in Mexico at the end of the 19th century, brought the first Arabic printing press to Mexico and founded one of the first magazines for the Lebanese community in the country. Carlos was the youngest boy of six children.
Carlos Slim studied engineering but his entrepreneul skills were evident as by the time he was 26 years old, his net worth was $40 million.
He married Soumaya Domit Gemayel, also a Lebanese-Mexican, in 1967; they had six children and were married for 32 years until Domit died of a kidney ailment in 1999.
The youngest daughter, Johanna, is married to Arturo Elías Ayub, a Syrian Lebanese and a board member of some of Slim's companies.
If you have been a student of history you will understand the link with Lebanon and the aggressive and smart trading. Yes, Lebanon was the starting point for the Phoenicians who were the first to explore the Mediterranean Sea route for trade. They were so good that even the Romans envied them.
Jumping Genes???
Reminds me of Carl Lewis! it's a very long jump.
Best regards,
Manoj

Sunday, March 07, 2010

Vanilla Desires and Other Stories

Hello,

The book is out and it would be nice if all of you can get your hands on the publication. The book contains 34 short stories encompassing the kaleidoscope of emotions from love, lust, hate, helplessness, pain and dejection.

The stories follow the confusing and complex thoughts of the protagonists, as they struggle with the strangeness in their ordinary lives.

The book contains prize winning entries of the 2009 UNISUN Short Story Competition and short stories by several other well established authors.

As expected I am proud to be part of the book.

My contribution to the anthology is through ‘In search of Durga’ a story where the relationship between man, woman, child and friend travel through a roller coaster along with the Durga Puja celebrations. The story is based in Bengal and has references to all my favourite places, the places which bring back special memories.

It is an attempt not only to document what I felt was plausible but also to give permanence to my memories of the places I love and people I know.

My writing short stories is an accident and every time I write my thoughts go back to Pandit Rameshwar Mishra, my great grand dad who was once upon a time considered to be the first writer to have written in ‘Khadi Boli’, the language of Bihar and UP at the time of independence. I believe he is the great guy who passed on his writing genes to me.

Unfortunately not much is known about his writing except for the word of mouth stories that have travelled in the family. It is understood that all copies of his book ‘Balwant Bhumiyar’ was put into a bonfire on the day of the publication and only a few advance copies/ drafts survived.
I have been trying to trace the book through my sources but have failed till now. It is but logical that all references to his name too have been removed from the history of Hindi Literature. I wish I will be able to do something about this matter as well.

While having a book of short stories on my own is part of my agenda my higher aim in life is to get back the story of ‘Balwant Bhumiyar’ in print.

I hope I succeed.

Best wishes,
Manoj

Wednesday, March 03, 2010

My short Story "In Search of Durga" getting published

Hello,
I believe all my reading and writing is finally paying off.
My second short story "In Search of Durga" is part of the anthology "Vanilla Desires and other Stories" where I share space with well established and experienced writers.
When I had started on my jourey of writing short stories I had never thought of such a day. In fact I'll be honest and tell that I did not give myself any chance of getting published. When my first story "Victim of the Stock Market" got published in the anthology "The Shrinking Woman & Other Stories", I was over the moon. But, soon some comments from some of my supposed to be friends and well wishers brought me down to earth. The attack was so vicious and full of hate that I started feeling that I was not good enough and was just plain lucky to have found a compassionate publisher.
Friends said that "Victim .." was too short a story and was published because of the exotic idea of a writer residing in Kuwait would help sales.
I later analyzed the statement and felt that it lacked logic. First, the story was short but it was complete with detailed human angles. Second, an Indian writer writing about Kuwait would be exotic. But I was an ordinary Indian writing an Indian story and the exotic factor did not jell.
During this spell what kept me going was the encouragement I received. My brother Sanjay, my friend Sanjoy, my daughter, Ruchira and several other readers loved the story and said that I was capable of better stuff.
Without being immodest I must add that twice I have been told that I am a better writer than Chetan Bhagat. Although for me Chetan was a good writer only till 'Five point someone', I do believe that the guys who do rate me above him are complimenting my writing style.
I know I can improve a lot and think better but the journey till date has been fulfilling.
In the beginning my dream was to be published once. I got it with the publication of 'Victim..", the negative comments from some quarters about my actual ability as a writer and the positive feedback from some quarters made me modify my dream slightly and I had now dreamt of a second publication with a longer story.
It is about to come true with the publication of "In.." and now I believe that it is time I altered my dreams a bit more.
Am I being greedy? Stupid? Overambitious?
Let me think over these points as I ponder on my next dream.
Till then all those who read my blog keep reading and sending in your feedback.
Your reactions are valuable.
Best regards,
Manoj

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

J D SALINGER - THE CATCHER IN THE RYE

Hello,
If you have not read 'The Catcher in the Rye' by JD Salinger you are missing something. I have not read it from the point of view of a critic and have no intention of praising it to the skies for the style and theme.
No I have no such intention. I have nothing serious to say on the book. All I want you to enjoy is the way the hero Holden Caulfield describes events places and people. It is a laugh riot.
A few samples:
Introducing his school:
Pencey Prep is this school in Agerstown, Pennsylvania. You probably heard of it. You've probably seen the ads anyway. They advertise in about a thousand magazines, always showing some hotshot guy on a horse jumping over a fence. Like as if all you ever did at Pencey was play polo all the time.
Talking about a game of football at Pencey:
I like to somewhere at least where you can see a few girls around once in a while, even if they're only scratching their arms or blowing their noses or even just giggling or something.
When his coat gets stolen:
The more expensive the school is, the more crooks it has - i'm not kidding.
Describing Old Spener, his History Teacher:
You never saw anybody nod as much in life as old Spencer did. You never knew if he was nodding alot because he was thinking and all or just because he was nice old guy that did'nt know his ass from his elbow.
His answer to a question on Egyptians:
The Egyptians were an ancient race of Caucasians residing in one of the northern sector of Africa. The latter as we all know is the largest continent in the eastern hemisphere. The Egyptians are extremely interesting to us today for various reasons. Modern science would still like to know what the secret ingredients were that the egyptians used when they wrapped up dead people so that their faces would not rot for innumerable centuries. This iteresting riddle is still quite a challenge to modern science in the twentieth century.
Dear Mr. Spencer, This is all I know about Egyptians. I cant seem to get very interested in them although your lectures are very interesting. It is all right with me if you flunk me though as I am flunking everything also except English anyway.
Respectfully yours,
Holden Caulfield.
If you find the above funny you just have to go through the build up to these to clutch your stomach from bursting of laughter.
A wonderful wonderful depiction of what goes through the head of teenagers.
I loved it when I read it first long long ago and all that. This time it really killed me. I'm not shooting crap. Just go through it and you will know why.
Best regards,
Manoj

Monday, February 15, 2010

SHARM EL SHEIKH - A HOLIDAY DESTINATION FOR THE LAZY

Hello,


Sharm El Sheikh was our first destination in Egypt and to begin with we were looking forward to a fun filled Chirstmas Eve Dinner that was part of the holiday package we had booked.

Unfortunately our flight got delayed and when we reached our hotel it was almost midnight. As we had skipped dinner at Kuwait expecting to stuff ourselves later we were all hungry and tired by the time we checked into our rooms. 'Novotel' provided us with beautiful accommodation.

After getting into our night clothes we called the room service for food. The menu was limited and we had no option but to go for something called rice and grilled chicken and rice and kofta.

While in India Kofta is generally vegetarian, Kofta in the Arabic world is another name for beef. The grilled chicken was in the smallest portion possible and the rice was absolutely different from what we are used to. Anyway as beggars can't be choosers we made do with the available stuff. Luckily there were some grilled potato pieces. What I can say is that we slept on empty stomachs.

Next morning we woke up early and opened our room doors to a big balcony facing the hotel garden. The weather was wonderful and we were already hungry enough we got ready for breakfast by 8 AM. We had a good breakfast.

Although we were on the other side of the road from the beach it was no big deal as the walk to the beach was just a couple of minutes. I must also add that staying on the other side turned out to be a better option because the beach side was crowded and noisy as well.

The Hotel has a private beach and the view of the sea is wonderful. Putting on our snorkelling gear we entered the sea to witness an amazing marine habitat. The sea animals and corals provided an awesome mixture of colours. While we have always dealt with colours in our daily life getting to see it underwater is a different thrill. Ialways connect the sea to waves, sand and bottomless depths and therefore everytime I see the corals and the marine life I am amazed.
That afternnon we had decided that come what may we will find an Indian restaurant to fill our tummies. We were not very optimistic but took the chance of going to the main market place. Funny, but we had a big neon sign for an Indian Restaurant just next door to our hotel. Anyway we did make a trip to the market and found an Indian Restaurant there as well. The food was good.
We took a tour of the market, bought some stuff at Seven Eleven, purchased mementos and had delicious glasses of Sugarcane juice.
Sharm El Sheikh is built to attract tourists. They have good hotels all located on the beach side and a very small local population.
It is clean and we don't have hawkers tapping you on your back as you try to have a peaceful vacation by the seaside.
I regret having kept just one full day for the place as we missed out on the boat trips to islands nearby that could have given us better beaches and coral life.
Sharm El Sheikh is for people who love the sea, have money and have time to spare. A destination for lazing around.
Best regards,
Manoj